Diet ideas: Eat whatever you want, and if anyone tries to lecture you about your weight, eat them too.
All relationships are doomed. If you emotionally undress in front of someone, they will pour acid on your shivering skin and leave you to die.
— Howard, Fresh Meat (via felicite)
Instead of saying “I don’t have time” try saying “it’s not a priority,” and see how that feels. Often, that’s a perfectly adequate explanation. I have time to iron my sheets, I just don’t want to. But other things are harder. Try it: “I’m not going to edit your résumé, sweetie, because it’s not a priority.” “I don’t go to the doctor because my health is not a priority.” If these phrases don’t sit well, that’s the point. Changing our language reminds us that time is a choice. If we don’t like how we’re spending an hour, we can choose differently.
Alice In Nappyland: sugahwaatah: Things I want to tell people, that I wish people had told...
Things I want to tell people, that I wish people had told me:
- You don’t have to achieve great things by the time you’re 25
- You have intrinsic value above and beyond your perceived utility to other people and society at large.
- You don’t have to have sex,…
